Payo ni Pia Wurtzbach sa mga mag-asawa, maging transparent sa isa’t isa: ‘No sugarcoating…talk about everything’
Pia Wurtzbach at Jeremy Jaunty
SA ilang buwang pagsasama nina Miss Universe 2015 Pia Wurtzbach at Jeremy Jauncey, napakarami pa nilang mga bagong discovery tungkol sa isa’t isa.
Mukha namang enjoy na enjoy ang mag-asawa sa kanilang married life at panay-panay pa rin ang kanilang pagta-travel sa iba’t ibang bansa na pinaniniwalaang bahagi pa rin ng kanilang pagha-honeymoon.
Base sa panayam sa actress-TV host ng “#ABTalks,” ang online show ng Emirati entrepreneur na si Anas Bukhash, habang tumatagal ang pagsasama nila ni Jeremy as married couple, marami rin silang natututunan at nadidiskubre sa ugali at personalidad ng bawat isa.
Natanong si Pia kung ano ang pinakamahalagang bagay na natutunan niya sa ilang taon nilang relasyon ni Jeremy,
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“I think what’s been really helpful for us is that we are always communicating, and we are transparent with our communication. There’s no sugarcoating, there are no flowery words, there is no beating around the bush.
“I hear about couples who never talk about finances with their partners, so they don’t know if they’re going to marry somebody who’s in debt.
“You should try to ask ‘Is the business going well? Are you saving money?’ They find this awkward, they find this to be a difficult topic to talk about, but you’ve got to talk about the hard things,'” paliwanag ng aktres.
Sa pa-Q&A session naman ni Pia sa kanyang social media account, may isang netizen ang nagtanong ng, “How’s married life so far? What engaged couples should prepare for in advance?”
Sagot ng aktres, “Talk about everything. I’ve heard so many couples who don’t talk about the big difficult questions before tying the knot.
“The important ones I think most women miss out on. Finances cause so many breakups. Talk about it openly. Gender-based roles in the relationship—does the guy expect the woman to stay home? Does the woman expect the man to be the breadwinner?
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“How do you comfort each other when one is stressed out? Do I give you space? Do you want comfort or advice? Those are two completely different things,” paliwanag ni Pia.
Dagdag pa niya, “What are your non-negotiables? Deal breakers? Dealing with in-laws or extended families? Knowing your communication style and love languages?
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“I am no relationship expert but from what I’ve gathered by talking and listening to friends, these are just some important topics to discuss,” sabi pa ni Pia.
Samantala, inamin din niya na medyo naiirita na siya kapag tinatanong kung kailan siya magbubuntis at magkaka-baby.
Pagkatapos kasi nilang ibandera sa buong mundo ang pagpapakasal nila ni Jeremy, ang palaging question kay Pia ay tungkol sa pagkakaroon ng anak.
Sey ni Pia sana raw ay tigilan na ng mga tao ang pag-uusisa sa lahat ng kababaihan kung kailan nila planong magbuntis at magkaanak pagkatapos magpakasal.
Nabanggit nga ito ni Pia sa panayam din ng “#ABTalks.” Nagpasalamat siya sa host dahil sa tamang pagtatanong nito na hindi nakaka-offend.
“Thanks for asking because you know, people just ask me, ‘When are you going to have kids? After I got married, I just keep hearing that question everywhere,” ani Pia.
Sey ng dating beauty queen, gusto rin naman niyang maging ina pero hindi pa raw ito mangyayari anytime soon. At very thankful siya dahil naiintindihan ng kanyang husband na si Jeremy Jauncey ang kanyang mga plano at desisyon sa buhay.
Naniniwala raw si Pia na mas marami pang pwedeng gawin at patunayan ang isang babae bukod sa pagiging nanay at nirerespeto niya ang mga kababaihan na hindi pa priority sa ngayon ang mag-baby.
“I think your worth as a woman is not measured by you being able to bear a child. There’s really so many more things to a woman that just bearing children.
“Some women do not want to have kids. Some women want to be amazing at their careers, they want to put all their effort into that.
“Maybe they want to take care of their parents all their life. Maybe they want to commit their life to social work. Maybe they just have different plans. That doesn’t mean that a woman is less valuable or less capable,” paliwanag pa niya.
“I really want to stand up for women who choose not to have kids. I respect that, I salute that. I want to (magkaanak) eventually, but I’m going to be honest, I’m hating that question (kailan siya magkaka-baby) lately,” mariin pa niyang sabi.
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