Ruffa hindi pa sure kung mag-aasawa uli: All I know is, I’m not going to end up alone, ipinagdarasal ko yan
Yilmaz Bektas at Ruffa Gutierrez
“I’VE’ forgiven him!” Ang diretsahang sagot ng aktres at dating beauty queen na si Ruffa Gutierrez nang tanungin tungkol sa mga kasalanang nagawa sa kanya ni Yilmaz Bektas.
Matagal na raw napatawad ni Ruffa ang dating asawa pero ngayon lang talaga siya nakapagdesisyon na papuntahin sa Istanbul ang kanyang dalawang anak para makita at mas makilala pa ang kanilang ama after 15 years.
Sa interview ni Vicki Belo kay Ruffa na mapapanood sa bago niyang YouTube vlog, nagbigay ito ng detalye Ruffa tungkol sa naging relasyon nila noon ng Turkish businessman na si Yilmaz.
Sa simulang bahagi ng nasabing YouTube vlog na in-upload last July 14 na may titulong, “RUFFA GUTIERREZ FINALLY OPENS UP ABOUT ‘TRAUMATIC MARRIED LIFE’ AFTER 15 YEARS!” pinasalamatan muna ni Ruffa si Vicki.
“Honestly, before anything else, I’d like to thank you because parang these days I feel kind of emotional and I just want to thank you that when I got back from Istanbul during those dark days of my life, you were there and you were one of those that really jumpstarted my career. So thank you so much. Doc Vicki helped me raise Lorin and Venice,” pahayag ng panganay na anak nina Annabelle Rama at Eddie Gutierrez.
Ayon kay Ruffa, matapos magpakasal kay Yilmaz noong 2003 at magkaroon ng dalawang anak – sina Lorin at Venice, hanggang sa maghiwalay four years later, napatawad na niya ang ex-husband.
“I guess time heals all wounds and I guess in God’s perfect time I think it just came naturally already a long time ago. I’ve forgiven him.
“I sent Lorin and Venice on their own to Istanbul. I just felt really light about it. I prayed about it. And I said, ‘God, if this is the right timing that Lorin and Venice should reunite with Yilmaz, give me a sign.’
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“And I think the sign is just being comfortable, being light, being at peace. I didn’t have any hesitations. Para sa akin, yun na yung sign na hinahanap ko,” pahayag ni Ruffa.
Mang magkahiwalay daw sila ni Yilmaz, wala raw talaga siyang nakuhang financial support dito para sa kanilang mga anak.
“No (suporta), but it’s payback time. I know that he will. Ha-hahaha! I think so. Kasi feeling ko, hindi niya nakikita yung mga bata so he wants me to suffer, may ganu’n siyang ugali na, ‘Okay ikaw lumayas eh, di ikaw magdusa.’
“Parang ganu’n yung feeling. He says that he’s engaged but this is like the 10th engagement so I don’t believe him. I don’t know kung pinapaselos lang niya ako or totoong ikinasal na siya. Walang return of the comeback. Ano ito, reunion talaga ng mga anak ko at Yilmaz,” pahayag pa ng celebrity mom.
Inamin din ni Ruffa na hindi niya nakikita ang sarili na magka-asawa o magpakasal uli, “Yilmaz and I, our relationship naman, is different because number one, I married him. Number two, we have kids together.
“Although I haven’t seen him in 15 years, a lot of the things that I did for Yilmaz, hindi ko alam kung magagawa ko pa yun sa buhay ko. Unless he’s my forever love. Like move to another country, change my religion.
“Kasi kapag sinabi mong kasal, nandiyan yung lahat ibibigay mo. 300% ibibigay mo. Magsasakripisyo ka talaga para sa relationship na yun.
“Kapag boyfriend mo lang, parang, ‘Okay ayaw mo? Okay bye!’ We don’t care. I don’t know if I want to get married again. I’ve left that in the hands of the Lord. All I know is, I’m not going to end up alone.
“For sure, I am not going to grow old alone. I know I’m going to have someone there that’s going to hold my hand until the end. I’m praying for it,” katwiran pa niya.
Samantala, hindi rin nakalimutang magpasalamat ni Ruffa sa lahat ng kanyang fans at social media followers na nagtatanggol at nagmamahal sa kanya hanggang ngayon.
“Maraming salamat sa lahat ng nag-message sa akin. They feel that I’m a great mom. Or they feel that I’m very selfless.
“For me, being a single mom and being with Yilmaz and we went through such a traumatic experience or breakup, for me importante talaga sa akin yung happiness ng mga anak ko.
“They deserve to grow up with a father. I don’t want to take that away from them. So I had to really be patient and have a lot of faith and trust in God. And I know that it’s going to be the start of something beautiful,” ang pahayag pa ng nanay nina Lorin at Venice at rumored girlfriend ni Herbert Bautista.
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