Bianca Valerio biktima ng sexual assault ng isang executive ng mobile app
BUONG tapang na inamin ni Bianca Valerio na nakaranas siya ng sexual abuse mula sa executive ng isang mobile app.
Aniya, hindi niya inaakala na ang kanyang pagtanggap ng trabaho bilang host sa isang private party ay hahantong sa isang kasuklam-suklam na pangyayaring ginawa sa kanya.
“Last June 23, 2021, I was sexually assaulted by a male individual. He eas one of the guests at an intimate private party I was hired to host for,” pagbabahagi ni Bianca Valerio sa kanyang video na ibinahagi niya sa Instagram nitong Miyerkules, March 30.
Pagpapatuloy niya, “I had never seen, met, or heard of this man before that evening. He told me he was working for a very popular mobile app.
“Since I didn’t have the app, he taught me how to use it and even gifted me with wallet credits this mobile app is known for.”
Inilarawan rin ni Bianca na isang “cuddly teddy bear” ang naturang lalaki at tinawag rin ito bilang “Mr. PR man”.
Dagdag pa niya, nalaman lamang niya na hindi pala ito talaga imbitado sa naturang party kung saan siya nag-host matapos ang ginawang nitong sexual assault sa kanya.
Hindi naman maiwasang maiyak ni Bianca habang inaalala kung paano siya minanipula ng naturang PR man.
Bukod pa rito ay inalok rin daw siya nito ng ilegal na droga habang nasa party na maayos raw niyang tinanggihan.
“I have survived many bullies like you all throughout my life. And in hindsight, knowing now what I know about you, I am probably one of the few who is actually genuinely kind to you,” pagpapatuloy ni Bianca.
Aminado rin ang event host na labis ang sakit na naidulot sa kanya ng ginawang pang-aabuso ng kanyang sexual predator.
“You know, even if you say it was just one night. For sure, even if you had just sexually assaulted me that one night…
“As any, as many victims of sexual and any form of trauma knows, the effects of PTSD [post-traumatic stress disorder], the damage that it does to our physical, mental, and psychological health goes way beyond the moment it happened,” lahad ni Bianca.
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Ilang beses rin niyang sinisi ang sarili matapos ang insidente.
“Trust me, I have blamed, tortured, and physically harmed myself nearly every single day ever since that night. So I know,” pag-amin ni Bianca.
“If there’s one person that is utterly disappointed in myself, it’s me. But I do not take responsibility for what he did. I do not take responsibility for the crime he chose to commit.”
Pero mas pinagsisihan niya ang pagtanggap sa naturang trabaho kung saan hinayaan lamang siya ng mga taong nakakakilala sa naturang PR man na maging isa sa mga biktima nito.
Bukod rito, napag-alaman niya rin na hindi lang pala siya ang naging biktima at mayroon pang iba na takot magsalita.
Ani Bianca, siyam na buwan na ang nakalilipas buhat nang mangyari ang insidente at bukod sa nais niyang makuha ang hustisya at gusto rin niya na maging inspirasyon sa mga kababaihan na huwag matakot na mahusgahan sa mga bagay na hindi naman nila kasalanan kung bakit nangyari.
“My silence strengthens the suffering, my silence helps no one, the only person who bwnefits from my shame and my silence is him. That ends today.”
Dagdag pa ni Bianca Valerio, “For the first time in my life, I finally know what it means when they say that ‘I am enough.
“I have never been proud in my entire life, simply by speaking up, with God as my strength, I have already won my inner battle.
“This is me claiming my power back.”
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