Bride at groom hiyang-hiya sa sariling kasal; parish priest nag-sorry

Janine Sagario at Jove Deo Sagario

NAPAIYAK na lang ang groom habang ginaganap ang wedding nila ng kanyang bride sa isang lugar sa Amlan, Negros Occidental last weekend.

Viral na ngayon ang kasal nina Janine Sagario at Jove Deo Sagario na nangyari sa St. Andrew the Apostle Parish sa Amlan nitong nagdaang Sabado, June 8, 2024.

Mismong si Janine ang nagbahagi ng hindi kagandahang nangyari sa pinaghandaan at pinakaaasam nilang kasal ni Jove sa kanyang Facebook account.

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Sa mga litrato at video na napanood namin sa social media, makikitang umiiyak at nagpapahid ng luha ang groom habang tila bad trip na bad trip ang itsura ng bride. Bukod dito, hindi rin maipinta ang mukha ng kanilang mga magulang.

Isang video na naka-post sa FB ay makikita ang titulong, “Pari sa kasal nagalit.” Dito mapapanood ang mga kasama sa wedding entourage habang nagsisimula nang magmisa ang pari.

Nasa video rin ang bride na hirap na hirap maglakad patungong altar dahil natatapakan na niya ang kanyang wedding gown, bukod pa rito, buntis din si Janine kaya hindi niya maitodo ang pagrampa.

Ayon sa bride, isang araw bago ang kanilang kasal, sinabihan daw sila ng isa nilang ninang na nagse-serve sa church kung saan gaganapin ang wedding, na sa halip 8 a.m. ay ginawang 9:30 a.m. ang seremonya.

Alas-9 ng umaga ay nasa simbahan na sila pero nagulat na lamang sila nang sabihan sila ng ilang staff sa simbahan na late sila ng isang oras. At dahil dito, nagsimula nang magmisa ang pari kahit wala pa ang bride sa altar.

Mas lalo pa raw sumama ang kanilang kalooban nang pagalitan pa sila ng pari nang nakaharap na sila sa altar dahil nga sa pagdating nila nang late. Napaiyak na lamang ang groom sa mga nangyari.

Narito ang bahagi ng Facebook post ng bride na mukhang auto-translated na sa English.

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“Good morning everyone! This day should be a big day/special day for my partner because it’s our wedding. But our supposed moment is ruined, always ruined!

“June 08 2024 at exactly 8:00am is our wedding but at the last minute June 07 2024 11:00pm one of our godmothers who served in the church came to our house to inform us that the convent person answered her that the time of our wedding was rescheduled, from 8:00am Down to 9:30am.

“So we are quick to inform both sides and to join our wedding entourage, we are happy because we are not too late. Yesterday at quarter to 9:00am we arrived at the church, we really put an allowance so we still have time to spend properly!

“But what happened is that we were greeted by the staff of the church because we were 1 hour late, they said that we will not make the church an ordinary one!

“All their mouths are noisy and talkative, they didn’t give us a chance to explain our side! I’m still at the entrance of the church, the mass has already started, I can’t even reach the altar and to think I almost slipped because I’m pregnant and will give birth soon!

“Extreme heartache, disappointment, and shame we felt because upon reaching the altar, we received the priest’s noise again! I was even told they thought I was in labor so we weren’t half on time!

“All the negative feedbacks that I heard about our parish, I didn’t send them, I chose to marry here in this church because I am from here! Because I’m proud of our parish but it’s the same thing that ruined my most special moment in my life! I was disrespected a lot, they didn’t even have respect that I was burning and they started calling me! You can see in the video I’ve attached how beautiful it is to get married here!

“I am posting this not to show off but to release my sadness and pain! My groom cried a lot after the wedding because he was hurt and sad because who else would be happy, right?! Sorry if you get offended by this but what you did to us is worse honestly!!!”

Kasunod nito, napakaraming nakisimpatya sa bagong kasal kabilang na ang ilang wedding suppliers at organizers sa Negros Oriental na nag-organize ng “Wedding Take 2″ para kina Janine at Jove Deo.

Magaganap ito sa darating na June 17, base sa post ng isang sponsor na si John Lester Barot. Sasagutin na nila ang wedding car, gown, make-up, sounds and lights, violinist, at pati na ang wedding rings.

Samantala, nag-issue na rin ng official statement si Msgr. Albert Erasmo G. Bohol, parish priest ng Saint Andrew Parish sa Amlan sa pamamagitan ng Facebook page ng Diocese of Dumaguete Commission on Liturgy.

Ayon sa kanilang pahayag, 8 a.m. talaga ang schedule ng kasal nina Jove at Janine, “However, on the night before the wedding, one of the lady sponsors went to the bride and groom’s house and told them that the wedding was moved to 9:30 a.m. and that they should not be in a hurry.

“She relayed this information in an unofficial capacity,” ang sabi pa.

Pagkatapos daw kasi ng kasal ay may naka-schedule na funeral mass ng 9:30 a.m.. Gayunman, humingi pa rin ng paumanhin ang pari sa nangyari sa kasalan.

“Hence, we express our sincere apology to the bride and the groom, to their respective families who were directly offended by the turn of these events, and to the people who have seen our humanity as Priests in a time when we were weakest of any possible control,” aniya pa.