Kathryn ayaw na ayaw maging pa-victim: I can say I’m healed!
Kathryn Bernardo
MAS palaban, mas matapang at mas mature na Kathryn Bernardo ang babandera sa buong universe sa mga susunod na buwan ng 2024.
Sinimulan na nga iyan ng Kapamilya actress at Box-Office Queen sa kanyang MEGA magazine cover ngayong April para sa kanilang Self-Love issue.
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Sa isang bahagi ng naturang panayam, ipinaliwanag ng dalaga ang kanyang paniniwala tungkol sa pagmamahal sa sarili, pagpapatawad at pagmu-move on sa pagkabigo.
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“There is a way to go back to your old self kapag nag-cut na. It’s healthier. Siyempre, you’re going to keep a part of that character forever in your heart. They call it pagpag, kasi kung hindi, baka mabaliw ako,” ang pahayag ni Kath.
Siniguro rin ng award-winning actress na kahit anong mangyari sa kanyang personal life ay hindi niya hinahayaang maapektuhan ang kanyang trabaho, kabilang na nga ang controversial breakup nila ni Daniel Padilla.
“When it happened, I still had to honor my professional commitment. I mean, you’re a human being. You have to experience all the process, all the pain, lahat. But I always make sure that when it comes to my work, nothing is affected,” paliwanag ni Kathryn.
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Patuloy pa niya, “It’s not like I was masking everything I was feeling. But it was very personal, and I didn’t want people to see me as a victim or to feel bad for me because it happened.
“So, for me, the best way to cope (with what happened) was, first, I needed to heal and to look at the bright side. I have so many blessings and so many people who stayed with me through all this. I focused on that. Second, I keep myself busy. Walang lull,” sey niya.
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“Sometimes, I would ask my manager, ‘May I have a few days just to recharge? Once I go back, I promise, okay na.’ Now, where I am is exactly where I’m supposed to be.
“February for me is the new January. Parang ’yun ’yung tapos na. I know that I’m okay. I can say I’m healed,” dagdag pang pahayag ng ex ni DJ.
Sa tanong kung anong maibibigay niyang advice tungkol sa pinagdaanan niyang challenges sa pakikipagrelasyon at sa usaping forgiveness.
“I actually don’t know because, first, I’ve never imagined myself being in this situation, and then, overcoming it. Depende. But distance is my way of protecting my peace.
“I don’t know. Ang lalim kasi ng word na forgiveness. For me, you can forgive people who deserve it. But when I forgive you, it doesn’t mean that I have to keep you in my life.
“I forgive you for my peace of mind, for clarity, and for everything. But it doesn’t mean na puwede kang bumalik. It depends.
“I’ll just keep my distance, you keep your distance. We’re okay like that. I mean, kunwari, I got hurt, why would I allow you to come back? It depends. It’s a case-to-case basis,” esplika pa niya.
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