Julia hirap na hirap nang magtiwala sa ibang tao: Super! As in grabe!

AMINADO si Julia Barretto na hindi na siya basta-basta nagtitiwala sa mga tao matapos ang mga pinagdaanan niya sa buhay nitong mga nakalipas na taon.

Ayon sa dalaga, totoong may trust issues na siya ngayon lalo na sa mga bago pa lang niyang nakikilala at talagang naging maingat na siya sa pakikipagkaibigan dahil na rin sa mga challenges na hinarap niya sa murang edad.

Naging open si Julia sa isyung ito nang makachikahan niya ang nakatatandang kapatid na si Dani Barretto sa pamamagitan ng bagong vlog nito sa YouTube.

“Super! As in grabe! Trusting now for me is very hard,” simulang pahayag ni Julia.

Pero paglilinaw ng dalaga, “But it doesn’t affect the fact that I always see the good in people. Trusting is just the people you let in your life.

“It’s so important who you surround yourself with. It matters. Your energy, your thoughts, your goals, your dreams.

“Every person you meet, they have a contribution to the person that you are so you really have to be careful,” paliwanag pa ng rumored girlfriend ni Gerald Anderson.

Aniya pa, “Not trusting the same way, I did before doesn’t make me cynical. It doesn’t make me negative towards other human beings. It just makes me more careful.”

Ngunit sa kabila ng kanyang trust issues, ipinagdiinan ni Julia na wala siyang nais baguhin sa mga pinagdaanan niya sa buhay kahit na ang mga isyu at kontrobersya na kinasangkutan niya noon.

“I wouldn’t change anything. Even what I went through two years ago, I wouldn’t change a thing. Because it was such an eye-opener and it revealed a lot of things to me that later on I need in my life,” pahayag ng dalaga.

Paano naman niya hina-handle ang mga pangnenega sa kanya ng ilang bashers pati na ang maling perception sa kanya ng mga tao?

“I feel like I just learned how to compartmentalize things, what matters and what doesn’t matter. If we’re talking about judgments from people that have no significant role in my life, it really doesn’t bother me, because what do you know?

“But if we’re talking about judgements from people in my life, I’m just glad that I’ve really become more picky with who I want to be in my life because now I know that the judgments are always constructive and they’re always because out concern or it’s just to help make me a better person,” esplika ni Julia.

Dagdag pa niya, “I think I’ve always just had that mindset of just keep pressing forward.

“When I’m in a really dark place in my life, I always hold on to the hope that maybe tomorrow’s better, and then when tomorrow really is better I’m like, ‘Oh, thank God I held on.’

“Right now, I’m very happy because I learned the two important ingredients in life, contentment and gratitude.

“I’m contented because there’s so many things clear to me now. I feel secured. Secured ako. Secured ‘yung future na I want for myself,” lahad pa ng anak nina Dennis Padilla at Marjorie Barretto.