Kris umaming mahirap mahalin: I agree 100% kuntento na ako bilang nanay
NAGBAHAGI muli ang Queen of All Media na si Kris Aquino ng kanyang saloobin tungkol sa mga naging kaganapan sa kanyang personal na buhay na aniya’y mas nagpatatag sa kanya bilang isang nanay.
Sunud-sunod ang mga post ni Kris sa Instagram kahapon at isa nga sa mga naging paksa niya ay ang naging annulment proceeding nila ng dating asawang si James Yap, ang tatay ni Bimby. Pinawalang-bisa ng Makati Regional Trial Court ang kasal nila noong 2012.
Ikinuwento ng TV host sa kanyang IG followers ang naging resulta ng kanyang psychological evaluation. Panimula niya, “Look what you taught me… it came out in my psychological evaluation during my annulment proceedings that i grew up equating a mother’s love with being a provider, a nurturer, and a protector.
“It also acknowledged that i had trouble sharing decision making because for all but 3 of my 38 years (i was 39 when the testing was done) i was shaped primarily by my mom’s central role in my life.
“She was by virtue of history forced to make our critical life choices and be the only person i believed had the right combination of love and wisdom that made me respect and trust her judgment completely,” ani Tetay.
Bukod dito, sinabi rin niya na hanggang ngayon ay naaalala pa rin niya ang pag-uusap nila ng kanyang yumaong ina na si former President Cory Aquino tungkol sa paghihiwalay nila ni James Yap.
“I go back to a conversation my Mom and i had when Bimb’s father and i were nearing the end of our union. My Mom said that unfortunately for me, regardless of how much we’ve progressed, successful women will still have to sacrifice a portion of their lives.
“She said to look into my future about what would really matter. And prioritize what gave me fulfillment,” pahayag ni Kris.
Dito, inamin din niya na talagang mahirap siyang mahalin kaya hindi na siya nagtataka kung bakit hanggang ngayon ay single pa rin siya.
Aniya, “So for all of you saying that i am a difficult woman to love, i agree 100%. I chose this life, and my children know no other form of living.
“So many of us have made mistakes in the same way we have also been victorious over adversity… but imagine 100 million people having access to judge your life and give an opinion about your decisions?
“That’s why the prayer for a life partner was thrown out of my bucket list. i am perfectly and wholeheartedly CONTENT being a MOTHER,” aniya pa.
Samantala, ibinalita rin ni Kris sa kanyang IG followers na naayos na rin sa wakas ang copyright issue sa pagitan ng KCA Productions at ABS-CBN kasabay ng pagpapasalamat sa 20 years na paglilingkod niya sa network.
“@abscbn has graciously agreed to a very fair compromise agreement.”
“Thank you ABS-CBN. It is pure relief that our copyright issue regarding my name, signature, and company logo amicably resolved copyright issue regarding her name, signature, and company logo was amicably resolved. With only sincere gratitude for 20 memorable years. Your former Kapamilya, Kris.”
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