KAHIT pala nakabuntis ng ibang babae ang vlogger na si Joel Mondina na mas kilala bilang si Pambansang Kolokoy ay hindi pa rin siya hiniwalayan ng asawang si Grace Mondina na mas kilalang si Marites.
Nakausap ni Luis Manzano si Grace through his YouTube channel na may 2 million subscribers.
Natanong ni Luis kung ano ang nangyari sa mag-asawang Joel at Grace dahil malayo sa ito sa napapanood na vlogs nilang Pambansang Kolokoy na akala ng 2.16 million subscribers nila ay super okay sila lalo na kapag magkakasama silang pamilya.
After 25 years of marriage ay biglang naisip na maghiwalay na lang.
”It never got to that point. It never got to that point when we talk about it. Nag break-up na kami because he didn’t have time for me. Parang napi-feel ko na there’s something going on pero I don’t have the evidence. Parang wala na ‘yung relationship namin parang were just friends with kids, wala na ‘yung feeling parang there’s no more spark,” sagot ni Ms Grace (tawag sa kanya).
Giit ni Luis, “sa isang relasyon it will always evolve, it will not always romantic love. Parang magiging companionship na lang ‘yan. (Kaya) dapat maganda pa rin ‘yung paligaw-ligaw.”
Dahil nga may pakiramdam na si Ms. Grace na may iba na si Joel ay natanong ba niya ang ex-husband.
“All the time because I always get emails random emails, so (shown to PK) ‘is this true?” Of course, he gonna deny, di ba? So, okay I believed you, I trust you because you told me before na hindi mo gagawin ‘yun, so, I trusted him. Everytime I always got that message,” kuwento ng ex-wife ni Pambansang Kolokjoy o PK.
Dagdag pa, “we’ve been together for 25 years, I wouldn’t think that he would do that because ang tagal na namin, you know. We’ve talked about going old together when we see old couples holding hands, we said ‘were gonna be like that right?’ ’Yun ang pinag-usapan namin, so, I’d never thought that he would do something like that.”
Maging si Luis din daw ay hindi makapaniwala dahil napapanood din niya ang vlogs ng PK, “I shared before in my social media pages para you could see an ideal family but we all know it’s different in social media how it is. ‘Yung hinala n’yo ba it never confirmed or finally at one point you will able to get sort of confirmation whatever your suspicion was?”
At diretsong inamin ni Ms Grace na napanatunayan niya ito dahil umamin na si Joel.
“Yes! It was confirmed. Tumawag ‘yung babae sa akin (hindi kilala). The night before someone is calling me, so I kept ignoring it. The next day it’s still unknown call, so, hindi ko sinagot.
“Then there’s a text, “I need to talk to you about PK). Sabi ko ‘what is it?’ So, at the same time dumating si PK and the girl called nandiyan si Joel sa tabi ko, and then sinabi niya ‘they’re been together for a long time and this is March 2022. We’ve been together for a long time and we gonna have a baby in July 2022.
“Sabi ko, bakit ginawa mo ‘yun (kay PK) and nag-sorry naman siya and he regretted it, I think, he was sorry for what he did,” kuwento ni Ms Grace.
Inaming nag-iyakan sina Joel at Grace, “yes umiyak kami, we both cried. What happened I thought we were okay (tanong niya kay PK), I was really shocked.”
Nagkaroon sila ng gusot kaya naghiwalay, “we broke-up, I never thought that he would have another girlfriend.
After the revelation ay ano ang mga sumunod na nangyari.
“We decided to get back together because I’m willing to take him back because I love him. I still accepted him. I want our family to be together,” katwiran ni Ms Grace.
Pero napuno na ba ang salop dahil nauwi rin sa hiwalayan.
“Kasi ibang feeling you know like later on I realize may bata na, you can’t undo the baby. We tried we were on dates when we were together, iba na talaga. Iba na ang feeling and he can tell. I don’t know sabi ko be here to stay with us with your family or be with her, which one? Sabi niya (PK), I wanna be with her because she’s carrying my baby,”pagtatapat ni Ms Grace.
Sabi pa, “Sabi ko if you choose her, then ano pa hinihintay mo, so he started packing.”
Nagulat si Luis at nagbirong, “hindi ko lang ma-imagine after all that magde-date pa kayo! So, habang nagdi-date kayo, kumusta na pala ‘yung baby mo? Hindi ko ma-imagine habang naghihintay wala kayong mapag=usapan or o musta, nagpa-ultrasound na?”
Sa kasalukuyan ay may communication naman daw sina Pambandang Kolokoy at Marites.
“We communicate because we have kids but there’s time when parang on and off friends and not friends. But recently before I came here nag-usap naman kami on the phone for the first time for a long time and just like before naglolokohan kami, ganu’n,” kuwento ni Ms Grace.
Naaliw si Luis, “okay nagkausap na and then magbabalikan, mag-uusap ulit tayo.”
At ang wish ng bunsong anak nina Joel at Grace na si CJ, “gusto ni CJ he want us to be back together.”
Ang dalawa pang anak na lalaki ay hindi gaanong maintindihan dahil may autism sila.
Ang biggest learning ni Ms Grace sa nangyari sa kanila ni Joel.
“Love isn’t enough when you’re in a relationship kasi you need trust, you need to be transparent, you need to communicate, you need to value your partner, you need to understand and that’s the key to have a good relationship healthy, open, honest communication.”
Sinang-ayunan naman ito ni Luis, “actually sinabi rin ng mommy ko rin ‘yan. It’s not simply about love it’s also about respect. Kasi puwede mong mahalin ‘yung tao pero hindi mo naman nire-respeto ang pagkatao ng isang tao.”
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