Payo ni Solenn sa mga taong ‘yes lang nang yes’: Speak up, it’s one thing I’m not good at…I’m a people pleaser
Solenn Heussaff at Nico Bolzico
KUNG may isang life lesson na natutunan ang Kapuso actress-TV host na si Solenn Heussaff sa ilang taong pamamalagi sa showbiz, yan ay ang pagsagot ng “NO” kapag hindi niya feel ang ipinagagawa sa kanya.
Inamin ni Solenn na marami siyang ginawang projects noon na labag sa kalooban niya kaya ang ending hindi siya naging masaya at kuntento kahit pa natapos niya ang mga ito.
At kung may ipapayo nga raw siya sa kanyang “younger self” na natutunan niya sa ilang taon niya sa mundo ng showbiz ito ay ang kasabihang, “success and failure work hand in hand.”
Sey ng asawa ng vlogger-influencer na si Nico Bolzico, “a person needs to succeed and to fall down to learn something.”
“Don’t thrive to just succeed because you can’t get there without ups and downs.
“Actually, the more downs you have, the better the end goal will be because you’ll be more mature as a person, you’ll be more open-minded, you’ll be more humble,” lahad ni Solenn sa YouTube vlog ni Bianca Gonzalez.
Isa pa sa life lesson na gusto niyang ibahagi sa batang version ng kanyang sarili ay ang matutong tumayo at manindigan sa kanyang pinaniniwalaan.
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Palagi raw kasi siyang yes nang yes noon sa lahat ng taong nakakasalamuha niya kahit na ayaw niya o labag nga sa kagustuhan niya.
“Speak up, it’s one thing I am not good at. I am a people pleaser, I always want to please people. Only recently, have I been semi-comfortable.
“I wouldn’t say I am a hundred percent there yet but only now do I speak up and say you know this is not really for me or this is making me uncomfortable, I think we should do it this way or that way.
“Before I was just like go, go, go, and sometimes I will find myself in awkward situations where it kind of put me in a depressed mode for a while because I was unhappy with the things I’ve done.
“Speak up, there are certain things that you may say to someone that doesn’t have to mean but that someone or that something will understand naman,” paliwanag pa ni Solenn.
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