Ellen nabiktima na rin ng ghosting: Pero hindi ako naghahabol sa lalaki

ELLEN ADARNA

TULAD ni Bea Alonzo, nabiktima rin ng “ghosting” ang dating sexy star na si Ellen Adarna.

Ito ang diretsong inamin ng ex partner ni John Lloyd Cruz at talagang nawasak daw ang kanyang ego nang maranasan ito.

Nagpa-Q&A (question and answer) si Ellen session sa kanyang Instagram Story si Ellen at isa nga sa mga natanong sa kanya ay kung may lalaki na bang nang-ghosting sa kanya o yung bigla na lang nawalang parang bula at hindi na nagparamdam pa. 

 “I’ve been ghosted once that left me with a bruised ego. But he came back two weeks later with flowers.

“I said, ‘No, I was fine without you and I’ll be fine without you,’” pahayag ni Ellen.

Aniya, hindi siya yung tipo na maghahabol sa lalaki kahit mahal na mahal pa niya ito. Pinalaki raw siya ng kanyang mga magulang na matapang at isa rin siyang proud independent woman.

“I never chase. I gave myself a pep talk that I’m a strong, independent woman and I do not deserve a boy like that. So, he’s not worth chasing and I never chase,” lahad pa ni Ellen.

Nagbigay din siya ng payo para sa lahat ng babaeng hindi pa rin maka-move on sa kanilang mga ex boyfriend, “You shouldn’t be chasing also because you’re a woman. And the egg doesn’t swim to the sperm — it doesn’t work that way. It’s not natural.”

Bukod dito, sinagot din niya ang tanong ng netizen kung bakit ang bilis niyang maka-move on sa isang failed relationship.

 “My father played a big role in this one. When I was young up until now, he would always tell me and remind me that I’m a strong girl.

“Now that I’m a parent, I believe that you should give affirmations to your kids. How you should program their minds and that’s true.

“I think my dad programmed me to be a strong person because when you tell these things, these affirmations to someone —especially when you start them young, they believe in it. They start to believe it and it happens.

“And because I’m on the secure side, I know that feelings come and go. And whatever I’m feeling at that time, I know that it will pass and I’m going to be okay,” paliwanag ng ex ni Lloydie.

Kamakailan, inamin ni Ellen kay DJ Mo Twister na may bago nang lalaki sa buhay niya ngayon, “Yes, I am dating someone. He’s from Spain. It’s a long-distance relationship.

“It actually works well for me because I have to spend time with my son. It works well for me so I’m not hassled at all,” aniya pa.

Hindi man diretsong pinangalanan ni Ellen ang guy, ang paniwala ng netizens ay boyfriend na niya si Carlos Lemus na nakasama niya sa kanyang travel sa Spain.