Venus Raj at North Orillan
BAGO ikasal si Miss Universe 2010 4th runner-up Venus Raj kay North Orillan, inamin niyang marami rin siyang takot na naramdaman.
Sa isang episode ng kanyang “The Major Major Podcast”, nagkaroon siya ng pagkakataon na makasama ang kanyang husband para ibahagi ang mga kaganapan sa kanilang married life.
Ikinasal sina Venus at North noong December 12, 2023 at sa naganap na chikahan sa podcast ni Venus ay marami silang napag-usapan about their past, present and future.
Kabilang sa mga naging topic nila ay ang tungkol sa intimacy bilang mag-asawa, ang kanilang expectations sa isa’t isa at ang pagkakaroon ng mga anak.
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Ayon kay Venus nang mapadako ang kanilang usapan sa pagpapakasal at pag-aasawa nalaman daw niyang, “It is not as scary as people say it is or it’s not as scary as I thought it will be.”
“Prior to getting married, me as an overthinker, ang dami kong iniisip na, ‘Hala, pag kinasal ka, ganito na mangyayari, ganito na, ganyan na.’
“Laging sinasabi ng mga tao, ‘Mag-iiba na yung buhay mo,’ which, totoo naman, mag-iiba naman talaga. Dynamics and all that.
“Pero, it’s not scary in a sense na parang matatakot kang pumasok sa married life dahil nakakatakot yung papasukin mo,” esplika ng beauty queen at life coach.
Dagdag pa niya, “For me, it’s surprising because, by God’s grace, our relationship is, you know, it’s light, it’s beautiful, it’s open. We’re enjoying it.”
Reaksyon naman ni North, “Praise God for that.”
Patuloy ni Venus, “Hindi siya parang, hindi siya nakakatakot na bagay na pasukin. It’s amazing when God says na talagang marriage is a picture of Christ and the Church.
“Yung sarap ng pakiramdam na may asawa ka, na you are with this person that you love, that you wake up every day with this person that you love.
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“Yun siguro yung patikim pa lang du’n sa beauty ng marriage na sinasabi ng Bible, that it’s a story of Christ and the Church,” aniya pa.
Tinanong naman ni Venus ang asawa kung ano ang pinaka-nagmarka sa kanya noong ikasal sila at nang matapos na ang wedding, “Gosh! There were a lot of moments.
“So, after the wedding day, one of my favorite moments is when we finally get to enjoy God’s gift of intimacy. One of the most precious moments that I was able to share with you.
“And to be able to experience that in such a pure and guiltless way, I think you could say that, guiltless, shameless way, and guilt-free.
“It was such an empowering moment for me because when you start on the right foot, in this case, the marriage, parang that gift of intimacy becomes a very beautiful thing,” pahayag ni North.
At isa naman sa mga priorities nila in the near future ay, “Have a baby. That’s like the number one thing that popped in my mind.
“I mean, there are a lot of goals naman, and, you know, we’ve talked with family, you know, plans for 2024. But for me, for us as a family, I want to start, you know, and have a baby.
“We’ve been praying about this even until now, and that’s definitely something that I look forward to. I wait expectantly for that. So, yeah, the baby for sure,” dagdag pa niyang paliwanag.
Sey naman ni Venus, “Definitely, I would love to have children soon. But kahit sabihin namin na this is our plan or this is our goal, at the end of the day, it’s the Lord that gives us the desires of our hearts.
“And we know that children are a gift from God. So, kahit planuhin namin ni North yan ng maigi, it’s still, you know, the Lord’s will that will prevail,” sey ng dating beauty queen.