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BALANG araw ay nais ding magkaroon ng anak ng Kapamilya actress na si Maxene Magalona.
Ito ang ibinunyag niya sa isang Instagram post matapos humingi ng opinyon ang isang netizen patungkol sa motherhood, kahit wala pang anak ang aktres.
Tanong sa kanya, “Soon when you’ll be a mother…I want to know your thoughts on motherhood and how to deal with your kids.”
Bago pa man ‘yan sagutin ni Maxene, naikuwento muna niya kung paano niya naisipan na gusto niyang magka-baby someday.
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“I don’t have kids but I would like to have just one when Go feels it’s time [happy face emoji] I actually didn’t want a kid before. But as I matured, I really had to sit with myself and ask my soul if I truly wanted a child,” chika niya.
Nilinaw rin niya na ayaw niyang magkaroon ng anak na basta-basta lamang.
“I don’t want to have kids just because everyone else is doing it. I choose to move at my own pace,” lahad niya sa post.
Paliwanag pa niya, “So when I meditated on it, I realized that I would like a child for the sole purpose of passing on what I learned in my journey and also make the child feel the kind of love and energy that I offer. So that they can also pass it on to the future generations.”
Sa bandang huli ay inihayag niya sa nagtanong na walang formula ang pagiging isang magulang.
Para sa kanya, ang kailangan lang daw gawin ay maging isang magandang ehemplo dahil kung ano ang nakikita nito sa magulang ay siyang ginagaya nila.
“I may not have a child yet but what I believe is that there is no formula for parenting,” sambit niya.
Patuloy niya, “We can read all the books we want and study how to raise kids but if we don’t do the inner work to heal, we will definitely have a hard time raising them.”
“What I would do is heal and work on my energy because kids don’t follow what we say—they copy the way we behave. They absorb our energy,” dagdag niya.
Sey pa niya, “So the best way for me to be a parent is to be super conscious so that I can work on myself everyday and be present and emotionally connected to my child. Just my 2 cents.”
Maraming netizens naman ang sumag-ayon sa ibinahaging pananaw ni Maxene at narito ang ilan sa mga nabasa namin sa comment section:
“Very true, kids are born pure and innocent; as time goes by, they become the mirror image of their parents.”
“True. When I got pregnant with my first born, I took the challenge right away of becoming a better person and if I can— to be able to be a good person, a human being to everyone.”
“I agree with you po. Dapat talaga ma-nurture muna natin’ yung self natin bago natin isipin mag anak o mag-nurture ng iba. Healing our inner child and healing from all the traumas we’ve encountered is a different kind of satisfaction.”
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