NAKAKALOKA ang love problem ng isang “introvert netizen” na hindi makapag-decide kung sino sa apat na lalaking bahagi ng kanyang buhay ngayon ang pipiliin niyang maging dyowa.
Sa Facebook page na Peso Sense, inilahad ng nagpakilalang “Shanghai” ang kanyang sitwasyon ngayon na tinawag niyang “Old Maiden Lovelife Crisis.”
“I am 33, Female and from the highlands. I am an introvert but I can be open to people I am comfortable with. Wala lang talaga akong mahingan ng advice na walang paghuhusga sa ngayon.
“Gusto ko sana makahingi ng opinion, advice or point of view nyo about my ‘Old Maiden Lovelife Crisis.’
“Let’s begin with addressing my dilemma, who to choose or choose none at all. Well, I am a batang 90s so, am gonna call them the ‘F4’,” pagbabahagi ni Shanghai.
Isa-isa niyang inilarawan ang apat na guy na pinagpipilian niya kung saan ginamit pa niya ang mga karakter ng F4 sa Taiwanese series na “Meteor Garden.”
Baka Bet Mo: ‘Ano ang bet mo, love without sex o sex without love?’
“1. Daomingzi – He is kind and gentleman. I like him. I met him through a relative. At first, I was skeptical about it, but with our 2nd night out with my other cousins, I have grown to like him, kinilig po ako angkol.
“But the problem is he is so torpe… we danced and we hugged pero he did not even hug tighter or moved a hand down my waist haha. Sabi ng pinsan ko, ganyan talaga yan torpe, he never had much experience with girls daw, and I can see that, shy type sya.
“Now, he is overseas working for his future and his family. We often chat but pag inumpisahan ko syang kulitin laugh emoji lang reply nya and “salamat po” sabi nya lang nung sabihin kung ingat ka jan mamahalin pa kita. Do I message him directly, if he is interested or just wanna be friends? Or Do I wait until he says he likes me too?”
“2. Huaze Lei – Well, this one is kinda known to my sister and her partner. Let us just say he is a friend of my family. We have been going out for a couple of times na for more than a year. We eat and talk and drink but he never tells me his intentions; we are just like friends hanging out.
“I listen to his rants, and he listens to mine. And then he hatids me after the night. Sabi ng kuya nya, torpe lang daw kaya d nagtatapat at ako na daw manligaw hahaha.
“He is one of his family’s breadwinners, hintayin daw muna nya makatapos kapatid nya. Very comfortable naman ako around him and I can say that he is sincere pero baka di sya handa din.
“Will I wait for him until he is ready? or Do I confront or ask him directly to know exactly what his intentions are? I mean why waste time and money on me, for many occasions, if he has no plan at all?
“3. Meizou – He is younger than me, we chat online and never met in person. He really wants to meet me in person, and he have this crazy idea, an indecent proposal. Can we call it indecent proposal, even if we’re both single? One night only daw and we’ll see if I’d like him, titigilan na nya ako.
“OMG!!! Nalaglag matres ko. But, naalala ko yong pinapanood ko nong isang araw, kunana ni Lily Pad ijay series nga How I met your Mother ket, ‘The biggest mistake would be to not make that mistake because then you’ll go your whole life not knowing if something was a mistake or not.’ I know, this is improper, but– I can’t explain…I am almost willing to take the risk. What should I do po ate and kuya???
“4. And then comes Xiemen – He is far older than me, he is also set to go aboard or abroad, isa syang fisherman in the big blue sea. Sabi nya I am ready, just tell me, and me and my family will be there to arrange everything before I go. Pagbalik nya daw kasal agad.
“I know, kaya nya akong buhayin pero I didn’t know his ugali and I am not into him. Please patulong naman???? Do I tell him straight na NO or give it a chance???” ang nakasaad pa sa kanyang post.
Patuloy na pagbabahagi ni Shanghai, “I told myself this new year nga, maglalandi na sa 2025, pero nakakaphobia ang mga pinsan at friends ko in relationships, they are struggling. Nakakadismaya.
“I am almost losing hope and ready to give up on real love. Now, my real crisis is, sino sa kanila ang pipiliin ko or maging old maiden nalang ako, so I can strike anywhere anytime.
“I have never been into a relationship longer than a year and I only had 2 relationships in my 33 years of existence. Mapili ba ako? Yes, and I think I should be.
“In my teenage years, grew up around people older than me. So, my pag-iisip ket medjo matanda na pero I am also sorrounded with people younger than me, so, kaya ko namang makipagsabayan ng humour nila. Wala akong friends na nakaedad ko. My old friends already had their own circle and life.
“You may say that I may be better off alone, but there are times that pillows, blankets, cups of coffee and my family’s presence are no longer enough.
“P.S. Thank you admin, please hide my identity. I am hoping to learn and read more from the members,” ang buong pahayag ni Ate Gurl.
O, mga ka-BANDERA kung kayo si Shanghai, sino ang pipiliin n’yo?! Reply na guys!