SA latest Instagram post ni Maggie Wilson, ang estranged wife ni Victor Consunji, Jr., sinagot niya ang mga nagtatanong kung bakit hindi na lang siya mag-baby.
Ramdam daw kasi ng mga netizens ang kanyang kalungkutan dahil hindi nito kapiling ang nag-iisang anak na si Connor na 11 years old na ngayon.
Ipinost ni Maggie sa kanyang Instagram account ang mga larawan nilang mag-ina during their happy days.
Ang sagot ni Maggie sa mga nagtatanong, “I’ve recently been getting quite a few people asking me why don’t I have another baby. The answer to that is not yet.
“Having spent time with someone who always says he is not ready for children because he feels deep accountability and responsibility for their future.
“That he doesn’t feel the need to rush and he will only have them once he is mature enough has made me think and look deeper.
“I believe in resolving issues before bringing another child into this world. I will only think about getting married again once the conflict is settled. I refuse until there is peace.
“I refuse to put my son through more trauma. He doesn’t deserve that. I refuse to have him adapt without proper communication.
“That is simply unfair to a child. I want my son to feel safe. To feel loved and to be able to love, feel and speak without fear.
“No child should ever be brainwashed to fit someone else’s motive or made to adjust because adults can’t communicate and resolve their trauma and conflict,” paliwanag ng dating aktres.
Nabanggit pa ng entrepreneur na handa siyang maghintay kahit ilang taon pa ang abutin para maging okay ang lahat at keri lang kahit hindi na siya magkaroon pa uli ng anak.
“Until those lines are open, I will patiently wait for when that day comes, when things are finally calm and when people choose kindness. I will wait, no matter how long it takes; even if it means that I will not be able to have another child, then so be it.
“I still believe in love. I love, love. And one day, everything will fall into place,” sabi pa niya.
At ang payo niya sa mga ama para sa darating na Father’s Day sa Linggo, Hunyo 18, “So for Father’s Day, teach your sons how to be compassionate, respectful, honest, accountable, and kind.
“Teach them how to communicate. Teach them to be real men so their future partners can feel safe. Raise them to be good and be someone they can be proud of,” aniya pa.
May nag-react na netizen kung bakit pinakikialaman ng ibang tao ang kanyang personal na buhay, sabi ni @chegade__saudade, “It’s sad how people are asking you when you’re going to have another baby. First of all, it’s none of their business and it’s 2023; why is procreating such a huge priority for them? There are other pressing issues in the world.”
Sabi naman ni @divinagrace1, “I saw your son today at the grocery.. along with yayas and parang driver ata or bodyguards yun, I’m pretty sure it was him.”
Say ni @nianedimabuyo, “Paglaki nya sya mismo pupunta sa iyo miss Maggie malalaman nya lahat at bakit sya pinagkait sa iyo ng ama nya just be patient God will work everything.”
Mula kay @joeyrymnd, “Thank you for being a good mom & for understanding that children go thru their early traumas mainly because of their parents’ issues. Unfortunately, di naiisip yun ng mga iba & focus their decisions on their wants without thinking anong effect nun sa bata and eventually will also affect how they deal with their own relationships because of what they witnessed / saw from their parents. You’re a great mom and I hope you be with your son soon and hope he knows that regardless of the circumstances, he is loved.”
Sabi ni @itsmamakagz, “Buti nalang He got your genes,” at ni @_femdm307, “Buti na lang nagmana ang mukha ni connor sayo Kaya ang gwapo at Hindi sa tatay nya.”
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