Maxene sa mga nagtatanong kung bakit hindi pa siya nagkaka-baby: It’s awkward, invasive and can be a bit rude
Maxene Magalona
“BAKIT hindi pa po kayo mag-baby?” Yan ang isa sa mga tanong na palagi raw nababasa ng Kapamilya actress na si Maxene Magalona sa social media.
Kaya naman sa kanyang latest Instagram post, sinagot na ni Maxene ang naturang katanungan para malaman na ng buong universe kung ano ang nasa isip at puso niya hinggil sa usaping ito.
Isang litrato ang ipinost ng aktres sa kanyang IG account na kuha sa isang beach resort kalakip ang kanyang mensahe sa lahat ng nagtatanong kung bakit hindi pa siya nagkaka-baby.
“This is one of the questions that I get asked the most on social media and in real life. Random strangers would go up to me for a photo and ask me this question as a form of small talk. I get it.
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“Humans are naturally curious about each other and especially when the person’s job entails them to become a public figure, we think we are entitled to know every little thing about what’s going on in their lives,” simulang pagbabahagi ni Maxene.
Aniya, ang mga ganitong klaseng tanong ay posibleng magkaroon ng negatibong epekto sa isang tao lalo na sa mga wala pa talagang balak na bumuo ng sariling pamilya.
“First of all, let me clarify that getting asked this question can be very triggering for some. It is awkward, invasive and can be a bit rude.
“Some women (and men) biologically can’t have children and some don’t even want to have them in the first place.
“So I encourage those of you who are used to asking this question to try to break the cycle and stop it, if you can. We should all be asking each other, “How are you?” instead of these personal questions,” lahad ng anak ng yumaong Master Rapper na si Francis Magalona.
Patuloy pa niya, “Second, I want to put it out there that I am 100% okay with my current life situation. Yes, there have been a lot of rough and painful times but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I understand that this is my unique journey and I simply choose to surrender to God’s plan.
“Third, I want to take this opportunity to use my voice to encourage all of you (especially those who don’t have children yet) to consciously ask yourselves if you truly want to have kids or if you’re just following what everyone else in society is doing? Are you just bored?” paalala ni Maxene.
Ito naman ang payo niya sa mga taong mahilig magtanong ng insensitive questions sa kanilang kapwa, “I highly recommend looking within yourself first, check to see if you’ve done enough inner work and healing for you to be able to have kids and get real with yourself about your intentions.
“If you want to have kids but refuse to heal your childhood wounds, believe me when I say that you will end up unconsciously passing these on to your children.
“If you don’t want to have kids but still do it anyway because of pressures of society, you will end up resenting yourself and your children as well.
So please research on ‘conscious coupling”’ before you get into relationships and marriages and “conscious parenting” before having children to save yourselves from unnecessary heartaches,” pahayag pa ni Maxene Magalona.
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