KC umaming takot noon sa lalaki, pero handa nang magpakasal ngayon

TAKOT noon sa lalaki ang singer-actress na si KC Concepcion, lalo na kapag napag-uusapan ang tungkol sa kasal.

Obviously, malaki ang naging epekto sa kanya ng paghihiwalay ng mga magulang niyang sina Sharon Cuneta at Gabby Concepcion noong two years old pa lang siya.

Pero nang dahil daw sa lockdown dulot ng COVID-19 pandemic, na-realize ni KC ang kahalagahan ng may partner sa buhay at may kasama sa bahay.

“During the quarantine, ito, super open ito, ha, and I think alam niyo naman ito. Kasi, parang I grew up na takot sa marriage. Takot minsan sa lalaki, ganu’n,” simulang chika ng dalaga sa Facebook Live interview ni Mela Habijan.

“In my 20s, I was never really ready to settle down, even now in my early 30s. It’s, like, and it wasn’t until the lockdown, the global pandemic that I really always say, ‘Wow, now I know the value of having a partner.

“Now I know the value of having a good partner, a boyfriend, or in the future, a husband,” aniya.

Sa isang bahagi ng panayam,  naikuwento ng dalaga ang pinakamatinding heartbreak na naranasan niya. Hindi man niya binanggit ang pangalan ng ex-boyfriend, very obvious na ito’y si Piolo Pascual.

“I think, of course, that for one, it’s something, like, I knew in my whole 20s. I was heartbroken, okay, I thought he was the one.

“And then, I went through a very public breakup and that was, I think, a milestone. It was a very pivotal moment as any heartbreak any girl would be, you know.

“So I think it was really more of, like, in my whole 20s, it was always trying to prove like that, ‘Ah, I can stand alone. I don’t wanna get hurt, so I’m okay,’” pahayag ng aktres.

Patuloy pa niya, “I guess when I hit 30, 31, 32, it’s, like, then you realize, ‘Okay, you know, maybe it is just time to settle down already.’

“And I think that’s one of the things,  it’s not really an insecurity, but something that I think about that it’s definitely, it hit me later, than the average girl.

“Maybe because my parents have split up. Maybe because my parents have remarried. Maybe because I was just so focused on my career.

“I’m just the self-actualizing person that always wants to be better and I always grew up feeling less. I don’t even know why.

“I grew up feeling, like, I wasn’t good enough. I don’t even know why. So it’s, like, in my whole 20s and my early 30s, it’s like, ‘Am I good enough yet? Am I enough yet?’ And then you realize, you are enough. More than enough.”

Mensahe pa niya sa mga katulad niyang naghihintay pa rin sa kanilang “the one”, “If you know you’ve been good to yourself and you always try to be kind to yourself, then that’s a big achievement on its own.

“Kasi you have to be kind to yourself and know yourself, ‘Okay, it wasn’t so great there. Hindi ako masyadong okay doon nu’ng ginawa ko yun.’ But then, you realize, I will be better.

“If you’re able to forgive yourself, and you’re able to know yourself, then you can be anything,” chika pa ng Mega daughter.

Ngayon ba masasabi na niyang handa na siyang magpakasal? “I think so. Of course, it still depends on the person. It’s still a process naman to get to know a person.

“Hindi naman dahil ready ka to settle down, anyone that comes, siya na. Pero, of course, I think now, with all my wonderful insights, with all of my wonderful wisdom, parang feeling ko ready na ako,” tugon ni KC.