Joyce Pring, Juancho Trivino
IKA nga sa kasabihan, “kung gusto, may paraan. Kung ayaw, laging may dahilan.”
At isa ‘yan sa mga inihayag ng TV host na si Joyce Pring nang talakayin nila ng kanyang mister at aktor na si Juancho Trivino ang patungkol sa pagkakaroon ng anak.
Sa latest YouTube episode ng #AskTheTrivinos, naglabas ng sariling opinyon ang mag-asawa sa topic ng hindi pagkakaroon ng anak at pagiging “Dink” o ‘yung mag-asawa na maginhawa naman ang buhay, ngunit walang anak.
“Kung gusto niyo talagang magka-baby, kahit gaano kahirap ‘yan, makaka-survive talaga kayo as in. Obviously, I’m talking to a standpoint na hindi naman kayo hirap na hirap sa buhay,” panimula ni Joyce.
Nagbigay pa ng mensahe ang TV host sa mga kapwa niyang babae, lalo na sa mga nais magkaroon ng anak na hindi dapat ito isinasantabi sakaling kailangang mamili sa pagitan ng karera o pagbuo ng sariling pamilya.
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Dahil sa katunayan daw ay kayang-kaya naman itong pagsabayin at binigyang-diin na hindi balakid ang pagkakaroon ng anak.
“I want to address this to all the women out there who you know, have been lied to by society that the most important thing that you can ever amount to is the career you put out there,” pag-open up niya sa usapin.
Ang advice niya, “if you have a desire to have children, to have a family, huwag mong i-push down ‘yan tapos sasabihin mo: ‘Hindi! Meron pa akong career, meron pa akong kailangang gawin na ganito.’ I’ve met so many incredible women who got out of med school, got married, got pregnant immediately, and then started doing their residency. Nag-medical school sila, nag-law school sila while they’re raising their family.”
“If women have done it before, what is stopping us from doing it right now. Children are not a hindrance to our dreams,” giit niya.
“If anything, they will fuel you to drive better, to be more proactive about your dreams but to have new dreams, like, I didn’t know that a new dream could be as simple as I want to learn to cook better, I want to be able to travel with small children, I want to build a beautiful home for my family,” kwento pa niya.
Dagdag ng TV host, “I think we live now in a society that looks at children as burdens, but they’re not. Children are not burdens, it will require a lot of work, yes. It will require a lot of sacrifice, selflessness, sleepless nights, lifestyle changes, but it is absolutely the most beautiful journey that you could be on not only as a mom but also as husband and wife.”
“Kasi parang meron you have that kind of love that you develop between the two of you once you have children,” sambit niya.
Chika pa niya, “Kasi iba na siya eh, parang, ‘wow, imagine we brought the soul together on earth. It’s a little bit of you and a little bit of me.’ But it’s an entirely new human being and God appointed us as the parents of this amazing beautiful child. And that gives you a different taste of a different kind of love.”
Taong 2020 nang ikinasal ang Kapuso couple na sina Joyce at Juancho.
Nabiyayaan sila ng magagandang anak na sina Alonso Eliam at Agnes Eleanor.