“I REALLY feel this relationship is so different from all the others. I don’t know why, I don’t like comparing, but this one is so different.
“Siguro in next two years, it has to happen. Like I’ve said, this relationship is so different and napi-feel ko na panghabang-buhay na talaga ito,” yan ang naging pahayag ni Derek Ramsay sa isang panayam noong July, 2020 tungkol sa relasyon nila ng ex-girlfriend na si Andrea Torres.
Diretsahan naman ang naging sagot ng hunk actor nang tanungin sa isang magazine interview kung ang bago niyang dyowa na si Ellen Adarna na nga ba ang babaeng nais niyang pakasalan.
“My heart tells me, if I don’t follow through with this one, I’ll regret it. Everything in my heart is telling me that, she’s the one,” sabi ni Derek.
Mula nang lumantad sina Ellen at Derek, hindi na sila nawala sa mga headline ng mga tabloid at entertainment website, talagang araw-araw pinagpipiyestahan ang kanilang relasyon.
Maraming nagsasabi na hindi rin magtatagal ang love story ng celebrity couple tulad ng nangyari kina Derek at Andrea na bigla na lang naghiwalay matapos ibandera sa publiko na napag-uusapan na nila ang pagpapakasal.
Komento ng ilang netizens, hindi raw talaga ang tipo ng aktor ang magpapatali sa isang babae dahil madali raw itong magsawa kaya ang ending, sa break up din nauuwi ang lahat.
Ngunit may mga kumokontra naman dito at nagtanggol sa Kapuso hunk actor. Anila, hindi pa lang talaga siguro nakikita ni Derek ang kanyang “forever” o ang taong nais niyang makasama for the rest of his life.
Mas okay na raw yung mabigo siya sa pag-ibig nang ilang ulit kesa naman magpakasal siya ngunit makalipas lang ang ilang taon ay maghihiwalay din.
“You will see me married one day. You will. I know,” ang paniniguro ni Derek sa isang post ng MEGA Entertainment sa kanilang Instagram account.
Ipinagdiinan ng aktor na hindi totoong wala talaga siyang balak magpakasal, “I don’t understand. If that was the case, then why would I be in relationships? These relationships are stepping stones to define that person who you’re going to be with.
“I’m not using these women. I get into a commitment with them because I think they have the qualities I want in a woman who I want to spend the rest of my life with,” sabi ni Derek sa panayam ni G3 San Diego.
“But sometimes people clash and you only get to see that side through time. And that’s what’s happened with me.
“And I don’t want to jump into something that’s supposed to be infinite. No excuses. You can’t just go and get yourself annulled or get divorced. I believe that marriage is infinite,” aniya pa.
“People always think of me na, if I end the relationship, it’s like I’m just this bad person that doesn’t want love, that doesn’t want to be loved,” sabi pa ng binata.
“I think she’s the one. And I say it’s gonna happen quick. Seriously. Like no joke. Sometimes you need to live a crazy life.
“I’ve always been living a safe life, and now, parang holy sh*t! I don’t know what’s coming. I don’t know what’s happening. But there’s nothing like this talaga,” pag-amin pa ni Derek sa nasabing panayam.
Samantala, sa latest Instagram post ni Derek, nagbigay siya ng sweet message para kay Ellen na pinusuan ng kanyang fans and followers, “Thank you for making me so happy bruha. Thank you for bringing back the real me.”