Ruffa Gutierrez, Venice at Lorin Gutierrez
MATAPANG na binuweltahan ng anak ni Ruffa Gutierrez na si Lorin Gutierrez ang mga bashers na puro kanegahan ang sinasabi sa pagpunta niya sa Istanbul kamakailan.
Kasama niyang nagtungo sa Turkey nitong nagdaang June ang kapatid na si Venice para muling makita at makasama ang amang si Yilmaz Bektas makalipas ang 15 taon.
Kahapon, July 18, naglabas ng vlog si Lorin sa kanyang YouTube channel para ibahagi sa madlang pipol ang reunion nilang mag-aama. Aniya, marami ang natuwa at na-excite sa kanyang 28-minute video.
Pero kung may mga natuwa sa muling pagkikita nila ng ama, may mga netizens din na nam-bash sa kanilang magkapatid pati na rin sa nanay nilang si Ruffa. Aniya, para raw silang mga tauhan sa pelikula dahil sa madrama nilang video.
Sabi ni Lorin, “As if you know everything or as if it’s so simple, and this is this and that is that. It’s really not black and white.
“There are a lot of people giving theories or negative opinions and blah-blah-blah, whatever. Usually, I shrug off all, like, negativity or whatever because, like you know, it’s always gonna be there,” aniya pa.
Nakiusap naman ang dalaga na sana’y maging sensitibo naman ang ibang tao sa feelings ng kanilang kapwa at tigilan na ang pagbatikos sa kanyang pamilya.
“We decided to share this part of our lives with you because obviously the split between my mom and dad was very public and I know that comes along with it.
“But, please, like, if you can leave a hate comment on any other piece of content that I produce, and you can say whatever you want about any other aspect of my life.
“But when it comes to this, especially like me seeing my family again, please, just be careful and be sensitive of what you do comment.
“Because this is possibly the most monumental moment of my life that I decided to vlog and share with the world. So, it’s a bit intimidating to put such a personal aspect of me out there,” paliwanag ni Lorin.
Mariin pa niyang sabi, nais lang daw niyang magbigay ng inspirasyon sa lahat ng mga anak na nawalay sa kanilang mga magulang at huwag mawalan ng pag-asa na muling makapiling ang mga ito.
“I’m not really that much of a public person, especially about my personal life. I keep that very private.
“There were definitely moments in my life where I was convinced I didn’t know when I was gonna see my father’s side again.
“The fact that suddenly I’m at a point where I’m on good speaking terms with my father and my father’s side, and him and my mom are now entering this new chapter of co-parenting both me and my sister…” aniya pa.
Dagdag pa ni Lorin, “I want you to know that it is possible to heal those relationships, it is possible to move forward, it is possible to grow even if it feels like it’s impossible.
“The right people will come back into your life in God’s perfect timing. Obviously, there’s a lot of hurt in 15 years, but my mindset is that the past is the past.
“There’s really nothing we can do to alter or change it and I’m not the type of person to dwell on the 15 years, but instead, focus on the next 15 years,” pahayag pa ng dalagang anak nina Ruffa at Yilmaz.
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