James Reid at Nadine Lustre
NAGBAHAGI ng ilang tips ang actress-singer na si Nadine Lustre sa lahat ng mga taong nahihirapang makapag-move on mula sa matinding heartbreak.
Ayon sa dalaga, hindi dapat minamadali ang proseso ng pagmu-move on lalo na kung talagang matindi ang naging epekto nito sa mga taong nagmahal, nagtiwala at nasaktan.
Naikuwento ni Nadine ang ilang personal experience niya pagdating sa pagiging heartbroken o pagkabigo sa pag-ibig sa podcast nina Saab Magalona at Jim Bacarro.
Dito, natanong nga ang ex-girlfriend ni James Reid kung paano niya hinarap at nilabanan ang pagiging sawi sa larangan ng love. Aniya, isa sa mga “best ways to move on” ay ang pagkakaroon ng “me time.”
“You need to take a break. Enjoy your own company. Be with yourself muna for a while and learn how to do things on your own.
“I feel like because you’ve grown with another person, you guys are growing together, I feel like it’s high time that you grow on your own,” paliwanag ng aktres.
Isa pa sa dapat gawin ng mga heartbroken ay ang huwag maging “hard” sa sarili, “My advice is not to rush it, just take it slow.
“You really have to go through it because I believe that it’s stages. You can’t just go through a breakup and after a couple of months you’re done,” aniya pa.
Kailan nga ba niya na-realize na naka-get over na siya sa paghihiwalay nila (ni James)? “It was really weird because there were times na I was like, ‘I wish this could still work out.’ You’re still there.
“But I was aware that it was slowly going away. At first it was hard for me, because I was like, this couldn’t happen. This can’t go away because I still want to be with this person.
“One day, I just woke up and I told my friend, ‘You know what, it’s not there anymore. Sometimes, that happens.
“It took a while because I needed to realize that I needed to put myself first. But when I realized that, and when I decided to put myself first, it just went out the window,” diretsong sagot ni Nadine.
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